A new year, a new week and some fresh feeling, over a cup of coffee sitting beside the windowpane....

Today, it is foggy morning in Kolkata due to the Low Pressure created on the sea. At last, Kolkata is enjoying a bit of winter though its only momentary, but still the feeling is just awesome.

It is a day of inspiration, to motivate oneself and lead a path of positive. Let's make it "No Expectations No Resolutions" year because they only bind you to certain limit. We must accept all the things coming our way, good or bad does not matter, but the thing which matter is your TRUESELF. After all, it is your decision to choose "what is right"and "how bad things to avoid". Isn't it?

I know, sometimes it is very tough to take certain decisions in life and you need to compromise with yourself. But, the ultimate challenge is to be happy and you should ask yourself "Are you happy with your compromise?" Listen to your inner self and if the answer is "YES", then there is no harm in making small compromises. But, if the answer is "NO", then you should come out from the situation and do what is right for you.

Saying NO is not selfishness, but it is about your mind and attitude. Initially, people will criticize you, but at the end your will earn more respect from others because of your strong decisions about life.

Let's Start 2017 with some inspiring words from Swami Vivekananda:









#MondayMusings

1. The year starts with a nostalgic trip to Shantiniketan (where I spend my 2-years of Post Graduation life). Back there after 6 years was an amazing feeling for me.
2. I had some big fights in family, which made me realize who I am and what I want from life. Sometimes family fights are the result of emotional outburst, but at the same time, you get to understand the opposite person’s thinking ability. At the end, hurting others should not be your intention, but It is your life and you know your life better than anyone else. A quote from a film Dear Zindagi : "Agar hum apni zindagi ka steering wheel apne haath mein nahi lenge na … toh koi doosra driver seat par baith jayega". Isn’t it? 
3. I became spiritually inclined and find solace both mentally and physically to structure my life in better ways and freed myself from unnecessary thoughts. This helps me in getting recognition for my words and writing.
4. Took courses in Digital Marketing Diploma and Nutrition helped me realize that knowledge has more power than anything else.
5. A big transformation happened to me bodily. My weight loss journey with SQUATS brings on more positive and confidence inside me. I understood that “ Dieting is Fun” and there is no substitute of GOOD HEALTH. I recommend you to stay healthy, eat smartly and live happily.

  6. Some pending family wishes were finally fulfilled and both I and my husband work hard to accomplish our dreams. It feels great when your support system always stay beside you.
  7. We planned our 3^rd Anniversary Trip this year and this was long waited holiday for us. Watched some incredible movies this year, which became an inspiration to perform much better in the life's race.
  8. Two family weddings, one from my in-laws side and one from my family side was ‘icing on the cake’    because I got time to spend some quality time with my family members from both side. It’s therapeutic!
  9. This year, thumbs up to Me because iPad was finally in my kitty bag for taking my blogging spirit to the next level. Also, invest on home  electronic appliances and I literally become the smart “Woman of the House” and trying hands in healthy cooking.
  10. Coming to the end of the year, my Christmas and New Year Celebration will always remain  memorable for me.

A Big Thank You to 2016 for being tough and kind at the same time and help me understand what I deserve from Life. For 2017, I do not have any expectations, nor do I have any resolutions. All I want is to “Go with the Flow” and want to open the mystery box of Life as it comes.
My friends, if you want to say Thank You to 2016, then what will there be in your list for a big Thank You.?

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My Christmas

Yummy!

Cooked By Me

Sunday Brunch

Flaxseed Whey Pancake

Prawn Salad

Chicken Roast

Day 2 we headed to another part of Purulia and our first stop after an hour of drive was:

Kashipur Rajbari- It is an old heritage Rajbari of Puru Dynasty. The successor of the dynasty still live in this building. Some of the portions of the Rajbari is in dilapidated state. We cannot enter inside the building because we had very less time to take permission from nearby Police Station. Yes, to enter this Rajbari, you need prior permission.

Front Side

Interior design of Rajbari

Iron Gate

Joychandi Hill- It is our next halt. At the top of the hill, there is "Mata ki Mandir"and "Hanuman Mandir". To reach there, you need to take only 330 stairs. But, the stairs are well maintained, clean and the scenic view from the top of the hill is just awesome.

Hill Top

Hill Top Mandir

Santhal Statue Roadside

Architecture in Garpanchkot

All above images are ruins of historic buildings

Santhal Girls & Me

Glimpse of our room of Hotel Akash Sarovar (booked through makemytrip)