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Spiritual

Past Karmic Connection & Your Life

03:37

Facts of Life

Child OR Toy

09:07

Oh Daddy!........... No

The scream within is deep and silent

I am bad

Oh isn’t she pretty! Would you like to use her?

I am not seen. I am not heard

I am the family toy

Watched.Used.Left

Born female. Used child. Tormented creature.

The above mention lines are of a child who has been sexually abused during her childhood days.

CHILD ABUSE is the physical and emotional mistreatment of children. A Government Commissioned Survey has found that more than 53% of children in India are subjected to sexual abuse.

UNICEF survey report shows…

· 50% of children - physical abuse

· 88.6% - physically abused in families

Approx 15% to 25% of women and 5% to 15% of men were sexually abused when they were children. Indecent exposure of the genitals to a child, sexual contact against a child leads to child sexual abuse.

NEGLECT a child during his\her childhood days also responsible for child abuse. PHYSICAL ABUSE like striking, burning, choking in a child is very common.

A UNICEF report says, From 4^th October 2005 - 30^th September 2006, Reachers found 91000 cases of NEGLECT.

PSYCHOLOGICAL\EMOTIONAL ABUSE is very hard to define because it doesn't only affect a mind of a child but it also creep into the physical abuse or harm to the child.

Child abuse is very complex to understand and leads to child prostitution and child labor. However, the NGO’S estimates indicate that roughly 12.15% of the prostitutes are child prostitutes.

According to official sources estimate 17.36 million are indulging in child labor, which is against the Rights of the child. Reason behind both child prostitutions and child labor is illiteracy and poverty. EFFECTS of child abuse leads to psychiatric problems, anxiety, depression. A 2006 study found Child Sexual Abuse (CSA) strongly related to adult depressive symptoms. Group therapy, play therapy and art therapy are the process to bring out child from such trauma. Thus, child abuse is an evil in the society.

Article 24 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights stated:-

1) Every child should have right without any discrimination.

2) Every child shall be registered immediately after birth

3) Every child has the right to acquire a nationality.

In addition, many governmental organizations and non – governmental organization like NGO’S work of child care and protection all over the country.

So, come together to say:

… Children are the soul of a good society with tremendous power and not the element of food…

Poems

22:25

Love & Relationship

10 things to remember while in a long distance relationship

05:08

"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart." - Helen Keller

When you are in a long distance relationship, you are mature enough to handle the relationship. This kind of relationship needs responsibility and rational thought. These days, people are staying away from family, love and native place due to various reasons:

Education
Job
Social activity

But, these activities do not force anyone to stop loving. Long distance relationship is a not an action, but an understanding between partners. When your love is far from you, each day is like a year. Some people find it very hard to maintain a long distance relationship. This result in regular fight, anguish, distrust and finally the relationship ends up in bad taste.

With my experience, I like to share my thoughts on a long distance relationship....

Cut down the Ego- Where there is ego, there is no love. Whether it is personal ego or professional ego, it kills the long distance relationship with time. Flow the love without ego. You will explore exciting moments in love.

Accept the Ambiance Do not hurt your partner with words like- “I have a huge facility in my place and you lack from such facility”. Always try to accept the ambiance of each other. You will find love is growing by each day.

Talk and Talk- Communication is a vital step in a long distance relationship. Thanks to the revolution in the technology field. Social, media, Chat application, phone, email is there for you. Now, you can talk, as many times you want.

Keep your trust- Relationship is not a base where you only take love. However, you are in relationship to give love. Grow the trust for you, in the heart of the partner. Distance hardly matters when there is trust in love.

No cheat, no pain- Do not cheat your love for any other person. Loyalty is the foundation of a healthy relationship. Suppose you are in office party and your lover call you, try to receive the call. It will make your lover feel the happy and secure.

Do not assume- Share all your insecurities with the partner. Assumption in relationship kills the essence of love. Why will you waste time in assumption? Go for an open discussion and remove the fear from the heart.

Surprise visit- Surprises make one happy. Long waits ended up in surprise visit will make the love intense.

Take benefit of video chat- Four times a week if possible, share the warmth between each other through video chat. Even you are physically apart, but video chat brings you close even in a long distance relationship.

Share the toughest time- Remember that your partner is not God. The partner is not a mind reader that will understand tough situation. Be practical and share the incident. Your partner will feel the importance as an individual in your life.

"No" to drama, or anger- Most couples show anger or create drama when the other partner fails to call at the usual time. Is this your case? If you feel love and care for the partner, then you make a call and talk. You can save the long distance relationship from damage.

Not all couples possess the same attributes in a long distance relationship. However, the above points will make your love grow strong and healthy. After all, love is an emotion that keeps both partners together for the entire life.

Love to hear your experience....