What Regrets taught You in life
06:18
I was 19 years old then with full of dreams, chirpy life and great parents as my support system. I was in college and away from parents. I had only my friends around to stay with, to eat with, and to share teenage experiences with. Life was so good (oh!I thought in that way though)
That was an age where you made mistakes and later on you regret even. I
am that lucky one who made mistakes and regretted very badly. There is a poverb
“A friend in need is a friend indeed” and
the biggest mistake I made is to trust an unworthy friend. Sometimes, I think,if
I could have made another decision and not to trust that friend, then life
would have been so different now. But, what’s there in your destiny, is going
to happen in any ways.
I was young that time, don’t know how to handle but slowly I learned certain
things from my regrets:
A
big lesson- Mistakes
and regrets go hand in hand. Those mistakes give you a big lesson in life. You
will become more conscious and you will judge each person before you get attach
emotionally. Comprise with emotion will only suppress you and make you more depressed
So, this lesson will broaden your perspective about people around you.
Sense
negative ambiance- Your one
regret makes you more strong and you will look for more positive things in life
and drive your life towards a happy life. Your experience will help you sense
any negative things that going to happen either to you or your close ones. May
be you can call it “Six Sense”.
Time
needs “Time” to Heal- It is a
matter of time and in future you will give more Time to “Time” to heal certain
things that is not in your control may be in professional life or in personal
life.
Positive
feeling- Man cannot stay away from making
mistake and even if you make mistake in future, then you will not regret
anymore rather you will either tackle the situation or person differently or
completely cut off from the bad influence. The choice is yours!
You
will find your own survival- You will become more independent in your ideas, thoughts and lifestyle.
In a way, you will find your survival strategies in this Earth and let not
other bad actions and bad mouth affects you at all.
Next Time, you make any mistake do not regret “why
you did this?” Rather choose a positive path.
Did
you make mistake? What have you learnt from your mistakes? Share your thoughts
with me.
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2 comments
You know Time sure heals every wound, but it's killing to while away that time, don't you think? In order to learn things in life it's important that such incidents to happen with us, or else where will the learning come from!
ReplyDeleteGlad to know that you learned your lessons and must be using them now in your life!
Cheers
Geets
Yes, Geet it is very painful and we human beings really get used to live with our wounds and this become experience for us.
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